My reception and wedding venue are booked but I’m having second thoughts about tying the knot

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM having serious doubts about getting married but my fiance was crushed when I told him and now I feel bad.

The wedding and the reception are already booked but I don’t know if I am doing the right thing.

We met four years ago, when I was just 17. He was 19 at the time.

Sometimes I wonder if we are getting married because it just seems the obvious thing to do. We bicker a lot.

He is always out or on the phone to his mates and sex has become routine.

Surely this can’t be right when two people plan to marry? Shouldn’t we feel excited?

DEIDRE SAYS:  Yes, you should. You both have a lot to sort out if you are to go ahead with the wedding.

Spell out your doubts about your relationship and his behaviour.

You and your fiance must decide what changes are needed.

If he won’t try, best cancel. Better anguish now than a marriage you regret.

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